30 March 2015

Some Easter crafts to make some bunny happy!

Today I am linking up to three Easter craft projects Popette and I have made over the years, I was hoping to get some new Easter projects up on the blog, but we've been busy making Popette's Easter hat over the weekend for her parade this week. 

Are you making an Easter hat? 

What sort of Easter craft activities have you been making? I'd love to hear!

Creating Easter Eggs with food colouring - If you want to make your dining table festive for Easter day why not create some coloured eggs using food colouring. It also provides a fun activity for the kids!

Easter themed potato printsI remember when I was little my Mum would cut up a couple potatoes into "stamps", then set me up with some butcher's paper and paint so I could print potato shapes - it was one of my favourite craft activities growing up.  A couple years ago I did this for Popette with the potatoes etched with some e-g-g-cellent designs! 

Little Easter goodie bag projectFour years ago we held a little Easter egg hunt for Popette and her cousins. I thought to make it more fun they could make their own little brown paper Easter bag to collect all the chocolatey goodness! 

23 March 2015

Craft: Paper plate birds

Last week I had to come up with a craft activity for Cherub's little friends at playgroup. With my thinking cap not quite working at the moment, I found some fun and easy craft activities on Pinterest which you can see here.

The birds looked fantastic once everybody finished them, and were super easy to make. Cherub loved sticking on the feathers the best!

Cherub's creation

Cherub enjoying craft time at playgroup

All you need is:
Paper plates
Feathers, stickers, Coloured paper for cutting into strips & beaks
Googly eyes

Its really easy to make these cute little guys! Firstly, fold a paper plate in half, then pick out some feathers and glue them on. For the tail you can either use feathers or cut some strips of coloured paper, like we did, and attach them to one end of the plate. Then on the other end glue on the eyes and add a beak made out of coloured paper.

There you have it!

If you stand the bird up he will rock for you too!!

Suitable age group: 2+ yrs
Estimated setup time: 5 mins
Messiness factor: low

05 March 2015

10 lessons for the first-time Mum

I have been a stay-at-home Mum for a little over 6 years, and in that time I have learnt so much. Actually, I am still learning today. Before my Husband and I had kids, we thought we had an idea of what to expect as parents. We were so wrong! You might have a little inkling of what to expect, thanks to your well-meaning family & friends or what you may have read in books, but there's some things you don't realise. 

One of my most happiest moments - the arrival of Cherub

Just when you think you have figured out this parenting job, something changes and you find yourself scratching your head and wondering what on earth you should be doing.

Today I thought I would share with you my 10 lessons I have learnt since becoming a Mum.

1. Look after yourself – Being a Mum can be really tiring, especially when you have a newborn that has you up every two or three hours feeding and changing nappies.

I remember in the newborn days of being told “Take a sleep when she does”. It really is helpful advice, especially when you are dog-tired from being up in the middle of the night and feel like you can’t get anything done the next day.

If you can’t get to sleep, make sure you take some time for yourself even if it’s to soak in a hot bath for 30 minutes or to sit on the lounge and read a book while bub is asleep.

2. Don't stress about breastfeeding Unless you get the right support, learning to breastfeed can be difficult as a new Mum. Don't let anyone make you feel bad if you can't breastfeed, it is not for everyone. It is not easy. It can make you really tired (and hungry) so make sure you rest-up, drink plenty of fluid and eat a healthy meal.

If you need to bottle-feed your bub, don't feel bad about it. Lots of well-meaning people will like to give you their viewpoint on what is best for your child, but you know what, as a Mum you do whats best for your child. If you are anything like me and can't breastfeed don't get upset and feel bad about it. If you have to give your baby formula, you give them formula.  At the end of the day, when you see a bunch of kids walking down the street you won't be able to tell who was bottle-fed to who was breastfed.  

3. Don’t try and be Supermum – Don’t put pressure on yourself to get everything done in one day. When you have a baby not everything goes to plan. Your bub may not take a nap, or your daily routine may change. As the baby gets older they will want more attention from you, and will spend less time asleep, so you may not have enough time (or energy) to get everything done. 

Try not to stress about the housework, it will always be there. If you are worried about neglecting the housework, try breaking the work into small jobs, which you can do over a few days, rather than overdoing it.

4. Get out and enjoy the fresh air – There will be those days when you will find yourself in the house. A. lot. Especially when your bub is tiny and new, and needing all that sleep. Just because they're a tiny newborn, does not mean you can’t take them out. One of the best things I found was to put my bub in the pram and take her for a walk. The fresh air will do you both good, and bub will still take a nap in the pram with the bouncing around of the pram.

5. Look for tired signs – When I had Popette I found a great workshop held at Tresillian which discussed the tired signs of a newborn, e.g. yawning, becoming grizzly, hands clenched into fists, rubbing their eyes etc. Knowing your babies tired signs will help you so much. It’s the key thing to look for when you need to put them down for a sleep. I am so grateful that I attended the workshop, as it helped us out so much. Not only I could tell the tired signs, but also my husband was able to pick them out. Which made putting our girls down for a nap during the day or to sleep at night a breeze. Yes, we still had days when they would grizzle and not want to go to sleep, but they were rare.

6. Being a parent is one of the toughest jobs you will ever do - There are days when you will feel frustrated, tired, angry, and emotional especially if you have a baby that doesn't sleep or cries a lot. You may feel as though you are struggling, or like the worst parent for letting them cry. Don’t. Every new parent at one time or another will go through the same feelings as you. Parenting is hard work! If you are feeling down, talk to a trusted friend or speak to a medical professional like your GP or Early Childhood Nurse. While most new Mums go through 'baby blues', you need to check its not postnatal depression (PND), so don't be afraid to ask for help.

7. Enjoy this moment  The newborn and toddler years go by so quickly. It makes me wish that I had taken Cherub’s first couple of years more slowly. While I have enjoyed some wonderful moments with both my girls, I wish I hadn't been so worried about how tidy the house was. Enjoy this moment it is such a special time. 

8. Find a supportive group - I remember when Popette was born I wasn't sure how to compare her milestones to other babies as she had been born prematurely. So I was relieved when the hospital referred me to a playgroup consisting of other premature babies. Finding a supportive group can be so helpful, especially when you have children the same age as you can find out how they are growing, compare developmental milestones, or talk about problems you've been having. 

I've been lucky to come across some lovely Mums in both my Mums group and Playgroup where I can speak to them about my concerns regarding my children, but also just get together and have a vent over a coffee. If you are lucky you may form some wonderful friendships for not only you, but your little one.

9. The rewards are worth all the stress - While there are days when being a Mum can seem like the toughest job, it can also be the most rewarding. When you hear your little one say your name for the first time, or you get a leg cuddle with a little voice say “I love you Mumma”...it is so worth all the stress!

You mean the world to your baby. As they grow, they will look up to you, and love you so very much (even when they grow up and tell you that they may not love you anymore. They still do!) They will do anything and everything just to please you. Make sure you praise and recognise their achievements, even when they are struggling and finding it hard to hit a milestone, still cheer them on to make them work even harder at what they want to achieve. You are their biggest cheerleader after all! While parenting is lots of hardwork, you will be rewarded in the end. I promise.

10. Your social life will change – Over the past 6 years my husband and I have lost some friendships due to our life being at a different stage to our friends. As much as we tried to stay in touch, some times it can be hard to catch-up with friends especially if baby's routines, nap times, or lack of a babysitter comes into play. If you are like us and only have one salary to live on, you may find that you can't afford to go out as much as you used to, or keep up with the social gatherings.

I can't say I know everything about being a Mum, I still have a long way to go. What I do know is that these little people are here because we wanted them to be here. We should love them, encourage them, protect them, nurture them and help them to be strong, happy, adventurous, confident, amazing little people. Who grow to be big, better people than all of us. So enjoy them!